Tammy’s Welcome

Hello there!

I’m Tammy!  I guess this page is where I tell you a bit about me and why I do what I do.  Well, it’s simple.   I’m just someone who got sick and tired of being sick and tired.  I realized that the rat race wasn’t for me.  I sought to live a happy and abundant life but instead I was miserable and frustrated.  I slowly came to the realization that what I was doing wasn’t what was truly important to me.  An inner struggle existed within me for years.

I had to make the radical decision to truly seek what mattered most to me, rather than conform to the standard of success that is the norm.  I didn’t want to wait until retirement to truly live.  I didn’t want to spend hours in traffic going to and from jobs I hated.  I didn’t want to go to work on Monday just to wait until Friday and then spend the weekend dreading Monday.  That’s not how I wanted to live, so I chose  a better life.

I didn’t have a lot of money, I had a lot of debt.   I had bills to pay and mouths to feed.  I had goals, dreams, hopes and aspirations.  I put myself through school and was still paying for it!  But, I decided not to allow my circumstances to control my fate.  I didn’t wait a year, a month or even a day, I started right when I made a concsious decision to do what matters most to me and let all the other “stuff” fill in where there was room.

Here’s what I did in a nutshell:

1. I made a decision to live a better life
2. I determined what “a better life” truly meant to me
3. I stopped doing those things which were counter to living the life I desired (let go of excuses)
4. I made a plan with goals and small milestones
5. I sought help where needed of people with like minded (no negative people!)
6. I allowed myself to be human! I was no longer afraid of making mistakes, I just let experience be my teacher.

I am just an ordinary person who chose to excerise her power of choice and free-thought to achieve the life I desired.    I believe that what I have been through wasn’t just for me, but to empower and motivate others.

You may be feeling stuck with no way out.  I have been there.  You may feel trapped by your circumstances. I have been there.  You may be so deep in your own stuff that you have all but given up on your hopes and dreams. I have been there too.

And now I am here to tell you there is a way out!

While you may not see that path that you would like to pursue, what you can do is stop going in the direction of the path you know is wrong for you.   Invite you to take off your shoes and have a seat, this site is your home on the ‘net.  Here I will post inspirational, motivational and reflective pieces to help you break free of the chains that hold you back from pursuing your destiny.  I didn’t study this stuff, I lived it!  And most importantly, I achieved it!  You can too!

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Fate is what  life does to people, history is what people do to life!